Her father was adament about getting my degree before we married, so I was going to start the last semester and found out I had a class that I had to take that would not be offered that semester. Instead of owning up to it, I was scared of him and kept it quiet. I would then go to a school where we would be living a finish up. So I told her after we were married, I was a lot different at 25 than I am now at 41. But no excuse.

I get you PH with the advice, With 2 young boys 12 and 9, I am in the paternal mode a lot. Will be consience of this from now on. Great insight, thank you.

Burt