The counselor has suggested that we both be there if at all possible. That way we both know what was/was not said, what meesage was given to the kids. I know I do NOT want them being told that "mommy and daddy couldn't get along"...that is BS!
Sydney already said once that daddy left bc we argued when we lived together...that may be the final result but was definitely not the cause...
Anyway I think we will be chatting later this evening, I am sure he will not like it and would not be surprised if he got angry bc he lives through avoidance of any/all issues whenever possible! Oh well, it is kind of weird that we haven't told the kids...I think we need to even though I hate to actually say it out loud...
