"I personally believe OIN holds open doors, cooks breakfast, kind guestures out of the kindness of his heart. I believe the feedback is currently not there or poor, so why he is commenting so often."
The thing is you do it just to do it. Not because you think you're going to get a reaction out of her. It's hard as hell, but it's that act of doing something without getting something in return is when it starts becoming habit.
As an example. When this stuff first happened to me, I started to be more cognizant of doing little things like holding the car door open for my W. I wasn't getting a response like a 'thank you' or anything. So I started thinking - what a bitch - but I kept doing it. After awhile I didn't realize I was doing it. It had become habit. And the funny thing is she started saying "thank you" ever time and even now and I don't even notice.
Little consistent behaviors will become habit over time.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
