I lived the "baited lifestyle" for about 6 years. Its no fun. We say that a WAS may make things right by their own relationship and simplify their life, lower their stress in the process but "its too logical". They'll never do it.
Once your wife gets use to baiting you, it will be a second nature. She won't even have to think about it, it will be automatic.
What kills me, and many other husbands here is we know where getting this particular treatment while the OM must be so special and he interacts with a entirely different entity.
