thanks for posting everyone. I actually have had a couple phone sessions with Chuck. On the first one, I was absolutely positive D was imminent and unavoidable, it was embarrassing telling him the story because it was such a dramatic mess. On the 2nd call Chuck showed me he had some real game, I'd felt during the first call that maybe he was just giving scripted responses but he went somewhere with me that was really quite spectacular, and I knew for sure that he cared. I had been doing the GAL and 180 thing, with hopes but not expectations.
So it's been about 2 mos and she seems to have been mellowing, but this past weekend she went off on me and has been in a bad mood since. So I guess I don't really know how to know when I'm off the gangplank and back on the boat, and then off the boat and back on solid ground.
I can be patient but it's pretty lonely. I don't think she's kissed me or hugged me possibly for nearly 9 months.
