Oh yea, good ol' limbo land. Yea, mine peaked last summer. Trust me, you'll get through it.
Having another woman around who shows you respect can definately help you get through things. After my divorce, I had a short fling with a 21 year old. We had nothing in common, but it really helped me get my confidence back. For a while I just kept things casual and had alot of fun. I still thought about my xw often, but it really helped me get strong again.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08