Well, we got lunch from the sandwich shop on the first floor and went outside to the picnic area to eat. Yes, he paid for it. He seems to be a long term kind of guy, although he has not been married, he has had two significant long term relationships. The first was with the mother of his S19, the second with a woman he was w/ for 8 years. She decided to call it quits. That was about 2 years ago, so sufficient time has gone by. I gave a brief history of my relationship status, joking that if he wanted to bolt and run now was the time to do it. We talked about kids, jobs, vacations, family. He was very nice, good looking, kinda short for a guy, but that’s not a bad thing he is still taller than me. Means I won’t have to wire spike heels. We talked about things we like to do. All it all, it was a great 45 min first meeting, enough to keep me interested. There was mention of a drink after work and shooting pool but no specifics. I did send a quick email when I got back thanking him for a great lunch and wishing him a happy afternoon.

If he asks, I will go out with him again. If not, I have a memory of a great lunch date!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..