I have a success story to share. This is my piecing thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1986462&page=1

with a link to my original thread on it.

I joined in Sept. and throughout Sept and Oct I didn't see much hope for my M. I DB'ed as best I could with a lot of ups and downs and my H recommitted to our M in December. We are now working on things... and, as you will see in my piecing thread, I feel DBing has been a success for me whether my M ultimately survives this or not.

Hang in there!