Don't know if HB monitors all posts. If your main goal is contact with her, consider a thread title addressed to her attention.
"A question for HB" or maybe "Hey HB, pull that rig over"
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!
I wouldn't mind, but the last time I directed the starting thread to someone in particular, I got into a bunch of crap with that person, yet, I did it in ignorance, having been gone for over 8 years. SO...this way was better, as I caught Matt's starting thread.
I wouldn't even go as far as to say I have ALL the answers...I do not...there are others who know just as much as I do, and those that know about other aspects of this, that I didn't have to deal with. I didn't have half the drama some have had, and other than the separation that comes with truck drivers and their wives, my husband never moved out...and neither did I when I went through.
I post as I can, am unable to monitor every post that comes in...not superwoman, that's for sure. Also, I'm a trucker like my husband is...and so I work, and sometimes hard...it's not unusual for me to disappear for a time, then reappear.
I've been out of this a long time, having survived his AND my transitions.
Ask away, though, and I will answer the best I can.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
