I have been reading along, but haven't found the turning point--do you mind saying a bit about your "done"? I don't think you posted what you found from the PI.
I don't want to drag stuff up as you are taking a wonderful mental health day for yourself and you deserve it.
Just that those of us (ahem, avermont) who are still wallowing are now looking for stories of that "done" moment.
I hope this "personal" day fills you with strength and energy!
(((Mind))) - You have given many of us inspiration! You truly have embraced what THIS is all about! I've even thought about taking up running.......I hope you had a great day of pampering and we all know that even though you know you are DONE, this won't be easy - so keep your spirits up!
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
just reading along, dropping into say hi and I hope you're having a great "Me" day
When the men on the chessboard Get up and tell you where to go; And you've just had some kind of mushroom And your mind is moving slow; Go ask Alice... I think she'll know.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
MF ~ is so successfull at DB'ing...she's DB'ing us ROFLMAO!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
