What if she says "I see your point. I am being selfish" starts having sex with him again? Too logical I guess.
She hasn't had sex with him for almost a year (or maybe more) and after him saying this you think she will want to have sex with him just like that?!
And you think that sounds logical LOL!
After he has this very real conversation with her, he can move on in the direction he decides to move on it, it's scary for him I'm sure since he's been db'ing his a$$ off for years literally but it's a requirement, he's living an unfulfilled life with someone who doesn't love him and he can do better and will do better either way.
Robx,
Its not "logical" for her to accept that she's being extremely selfish.
What is "too logical" is for her to think "yes, I have been being selfish." and start having sex with him. Its not going to happen, because its too logical.
Whats really going to happen is she's going to either find a reason to blame him, or continue not to think about him.
What we were saying about the waywards is that there are some things that they just can't realize because they are "too logical".
IE: "He keeps saying that I'm treating him like crap. But he's always mad at me..." Maybe he's mad because you treat him like crap and you do so because your cheating, DOH. Too logical.
Hell if he's been starved out for a year, maybe he should invite her on a date with his new girlfriend who loves to see him fulfilled.
Its saddening to realize that these WAS ( WAW ) will string us along as long as possible, while literally not even offering crumbs - and make it logical in their mind. "Well I let him spend time with his kids and help out. But I don't need him to have sex with me or for intimacy because thats what OM does". You know they think that. "What about me?"
