What WOULD you have done before? What's your past history for b-days w/ each other?
Puppy
I sent the e-mail. We usually alternate having a huge party on our bday (ours are 1 month apart) went out to dinner for mine. So... what I HAD planned was to take her to a broadway show last weekend, though she doesn't know this...
And NOW! the next question is... She wants to organize a local party for my graduation (I'm graduating from a school that is out of town in mid may). Apparently lots of friends and former colleagues are asking her when the party will be. Many of these are folks we cannot tell about the separation due to professional relationships. So... Not sure how to advise her. And I would like to have a local party, but don't think she should organize it for me. And I certainly don't have the energy to organize it myself.
Maybe call someone else who might be able to put it together for me?
Amybel
M: 46, WAW:47 M: 12y T: 16y EA with OW 2/26/10 Bomb 3/9 "in love w/ my ex" MC 3/12 NC 3/17 Bomb 3/31 "D on April 9 Trial Sep 4/1 http://tinyurl.com/amybelstory
