I truly am. And I am so relieved to be able to say that.
It's not that I don't still struggle with pain and anger... there is plenty there and I am guessing I will be battling that for some time. But I am not letting those emotions control me. (at least most of the time....)
Ha... I just saw my spelling mistakes on my last post. I am working on not being a perfectionist so that is good for me.
Right now I am working on some goals for myself. This time apart has really helped me to do that... focus on me for a while. I think that is part of the reason I am doing well right now.
I am realizing I have some things to get excited about! I can do some great things for myself, no matter what happens with my M, whether my H works on himself or not... I can do these things for myself. That makes me happy.
