Trent C,

What do you mean fixed on his behavior? (what he is and not doing?)

I can say yes he is playing game still but then I think i probably I am as well? $ is sporadic if/when he gives it. I usually have to jump through hoops to get it.

Visitation he blames it on my why he wont visit with them. He only mentiones older child not newborn.

So yet another two weeks have passed and he hasnt visited with kids.

Nothing has really changed, son was born.

I dont really know how to proceed, I want him to be the man in our lives, father,.

I'm not supposed to believe what he says, right?

?How do i get unstuck????


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline