contact the other man's wife,
she has info that you do not since she spent time finding out about your wife and contacting her and telling her to back away from the OM.

It's not that hard, get the facts and let us know what she tells you, for now sit tight and act dumb and stop bring up the OM and facebook stuff with your wife.

You don't have alot of information right now and confronting her with nothing is dumb.

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I'm leaning toward packing her things, kicking her a$$ out on the street and start dating other women but then again I watch alot of ufc so maybe I just focus on kicking too much (a good front kick is just as good if not better than a jab, ask Lyoto Machida, he'll tell you!)