yup, - focus time on healing yourself, which means getting the necessary rest & recuperation. - I'm happy to hear you got the job, file that under "positive achievements" category - no R talk with your wife, - no scripture talk with your wife, no word of God, nothing, that will be a 180 for you - spend some time away from her, for your own good - relax a bit - when do you start work? find some time to shop for some work clothes, if it's an office environment is it smart casual, very formal, prepare for that - stop mind reading your wife you will go crazy - if she wants to do nice things for you, let her but don't read anything into it, you will, you always will because that's what you've shown us but I'm telling you not to, we'll see how you listen
