agreed, OldPilot (btw, can I call you YoungPilot ;)). really trying to detach and focus on myself. this is much easier said than done but trying none the less.

i've realized in the same way, i can't control the sitch, i can't control his family either. while it would be nice for them to not be involved, H did tell BIL and i can't really stop his BIL from doing whatever he is going to do.

i'm exhausted.


Me 30, H34, M7years
Bomb dropped 5/09, S8/09, Living together 2/10 (due to external forces)