She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

I should have been more clear about that sentence. My underlying message was for him to stay put.

The other guys clarified what I meant but didn't write about her coming and going.

To be honest, I would still give her the one weekend. As long as it's ONE. I don't think it's an unreasonable request IMHO. Others may see it differently.

I think the only reason you wouldn't do it is to spite her. But if you can deny her the weekend for some valid reason where it's not to 'teach her a lesson' then denying may be a better choice for you.

I'm not a big fan of controlling people or situations to punish someone. I find that always seems to backfire on me like a freakin boomerang - and it always feels bigger and heavier when it hits me than it did when I threw it. Again, my two cents.

Absolutely stand your ground about you staying put in the house!