SMM, sorry to hear of your sitch. Try to remain calm. This entire thing can be maddening but try to stay above the fray. How many MC sessions have you been to?
We tried MC before she left and it did not go well. The counselor talked to us but W never said anythngi other than I did not take the trash out or wash the dishes and never got into the problems we had. So the counselor said there was nothing there that was a problem. Well turns out she went back for another session alone and said that she did not think I was trying and that she gave up. It was then she wrote the letter but waited until after the holidays to give it to me. I suggested the counselor tis time becasue I think it can help if we actually talk about what is goign on. Maybe not? I do not know. I am lost! Tired of the pain!!!
