I know at their age they might not get it. D9 even last year was asking when Daddy was going to come back and we had been divorced several monthes at that time. It is never easy but yes, I think it it time. Can you and Dan do it together? Might make explaining it easier.
hang in there. kat
I intend to do it together. He was texting me again Saturday about Sydney and her fussing for me (he texted me a ton while he had them) and in one reply I said btw we need to chat briefly.
He replied "OK, About" and I said "Something we need to discuss per my counselor" bc counselor is the one who said we need to tell them together and suggested telling them WHY we D'd...
So anyway he has said nothing since then so I need to bring it up. It has been ages since we have talked about anything relating to 'us'...although this is not R talk as much as 'kid talk' as it pertains to what/when/how we tell the kids. And I do not wish to decide that via text...
