I know at their age they might not get it. D9 even last year was asking when Daddy was going to come back and we had been divorced several monthes at that time. It is never easy but yes, I think it it time. Can you and Dan do it together? Might make explaining it easier.
hang in there. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory