Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[timehealsall]

You need to sort yourself out.

Just because he JUST woke up after 2 years and wants to move back in, doesn't mean you need to jump and give him an answer.

Give it some time.

He does seem remorseful about how it hurt your DD but hasn't said anything about you. Has he mentioned that he wants to work on the marriage or is he looking to have an inhouse separation so he can see your DD?

My H has ZERO remorse for his A. He sees how his absence affected our children, but NONE with regards to me.

Will he go to counseling?

I'm reading not just friends as well and it makes me sick sometimes too. but it's VERY informative especially getting inside my H's thinking while he was having his A.

Hang in there. we are here for each other!