Yes stay put but I'm not sure how much I agree on coming & going as she pleases, I would tell her, if you're going to come by, please call before just to see if we're home first.Because if you allow coming & going as she pleases, you'll get that x 100.
100% right, here. I even had advance notice/approval/my presence clause put in separation agreement. Ultimate boundary! I told her it may still be 1/2 your asset, but it's my home!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac