HeartsBlessing thank you for stopping by. Thank you for reassuring me that what I'm going through with H is just a another part of the MLC process.
BTW it's OW's Husband that keeps calling me not the OW and it was her who initiated the break-up with H. That must make it harder on H to process being "betrayed" by her and get over the big "love" he got himself entangled in.
His MLC-mind believed that the OW was the answer to all of his problems and if only he could run away with her from it all he would be happy. That didn't quite worked out. He has lots to deal with now....He already brought up the guilt..."I have to forgive my self" he said.
I understand that this will take a while, I just have to adjust my expectations. It will be a much slower process then I expected.
I will continue to show him my love and support but without any pressure and wait for him to be "done".
In the meantime I will enjoy what he can give now...which is already more then what it was in the past year.
Thanks for your help
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
