The journey begins

[iwantittowork]

I chalked a lot of this up to a mid-life crisis.

Irrelevant.

To CTH.

I know some people may 2x4 me for saying so, but this has nothing to do with you, and why I feel it is now irrelevant to our sitch's and current state.

For the record, my stbxw exhibits signs of this, and I now ignore them, as they don't have anything to do with me. and everything to do with her.

So, knowing that, we can't do anything about them, why try? What we can do is control how we react to things, and what we set as behavior we will or will not tolerate. (IE: a boundary)