I think this is part of my problem. I don't have a list like this. I've not wished for more than I had. I've never felt cheated out of not having more. (Another chance for my marriage not included.)

I had what I wanted - or believed that I did.

I would LOVE to have a list like this, and I'm sure it sounds utterly stupid to most, impossible to others - but I honestly don't know where/how to start. I've been struggling with what I think I'm supposed to be doing (GAL), because I don't know where to start or how to do this. I have done some things I like to do. I take opportunities to do things when I can----but almost every minute of my day is occupied with responsibility or obligation----and I don't complain (much) about that.

I guess it's amazing that H stayed as long as he did (LOL)!

Will take any and all suggestions.....

Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12