is my WAH in an MLC (need some experts!)?

[pandora]

he is the patriarch of the family...loving, giving, self-sacrificing. i can't stress how much the eastern culture is playing a piece b/c divorce just doesn't happen unless it's a really dire sitch. he's the only one who knows right now and once the rest of the family finds out...they will all have similar reactions...wanting to fix it, not accepting it, etc (basically my reaction multiplie 10 fold!). it's just the way things work, people get involved, it's very communal (values include that it's not two people getting married, but two families).