Am I handling things right? Am I doing the right techniques?
A 180 would be me telling him exactly what I think of his actions and words.
I'm trying to have NC. I'm trying to GAL and do LRT. Only contact is about bills and/or kids.
The only time that I have brought up sitch to him was on Mar 20th when he showed up to pack his things. I cried and begged and tried to get him to talk to me and not to leave. That's the only time. Since, I've only responded with a calm tone and polite words when he makes comments like "you never wanted me in 17 years". When he sends hateful texts, I just don't respond. When he sends texts regarding kids/bills, I respond in as little words as poss.
