Met with L yesterday. Don't know how to feel about it. If it comes to D, no matter what, I'm f'd. L said I could expect joint custody, stuff like that. I guess I feel I learned some things, but nothing that really makes me feel better.
I guess it boils down to neither one of us by ourselves can take care of the kids as well as we do together. The money that would be taken out of my check for child support would be more that 40% of my net pay. Doesn't leave me with much leftover to live on. I will take care of my kids, I'm not complaining about that. She has a part time job-how is she going to live? I know she's not thinking about that, she just wants out. When will reality hit her? I'm thinking when it's too late. Hopefully, we are not out of time and can still fix this.
Had a great time playing with the band this weekend. They asked me to come to a practice and work up some songs so we all are on the same page. Don't know if they'll ask me to join, but I guess I was good enough for a second look.
