Can you add one section to your list? I find this helps me look forward:
I have always wanted to do x?
I've always wanted to visit Paris in the spring. I've always wanted to go to the Indy 500 I've always wanted to live in a loft downtown. I've always wanted a pet snake. I've always wanted to spend endless hours in a book store. I've always wanted to visit the grand canyon. I've always wanted to run naked under the stars in the desert.
Now look at your situation as an opportunity to do some of the things you've always wanted to do. Works really well if you replace a fear with an opportunity. For example "will I loose my home" gets replaced with if I have to move I can look at a nice loft down town like I've always wanted.
This is your time to rewrite the history of you. Have fun!
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