The countdown continues

[Awoken]

W sent me a couple of emails this morning saying she is thought we were trying to work together, but she is surprised at all the differences in our counter offer. She is making no sense. We basically agreed with what she asked for, and asked that we pay off the equity line on the house early so that I could refi the house while rates are low. If that's what she is objecting to, I hardly understand.

Then to cap it off, she says she will not be rushed into this!
We had a deadline with the court yesterday to either schedule mediate or reach an agreement. It's been four months since she filed for divorce. I don't really think she is being rushed. After all, she is getting what she wants!

We are having a disagreement about custody over the july 4th holiday. I don't know why, according the agreement we've both basically already agreed to, it would be my turn anyway. She just had both kids for a entire week for spring break. It's frustrating.

Ok, I don't understand her level of anger at me, or the fact that I'm so cool in accepting the situation. I talked to a relative yesterday, and they said "you sound good!". I do feel good, even ok with this. I still don't believe divorce is the solution for problems in a marriage. It just feels like crazy times.