Gatsby I think if you do talk face to face and in a calm way about how they hurt your feelings then it is better than what I was picturing. You are right, they can really help you with your baby and besides- your baby deserves to know them, right? I hold nothing against my in laws and they are welcome to see my S whenever.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004