I realize I'm not the cause and I am hoping that moving out helps her to see that also.
With the addiction, she sees a counselor in a group setting and I believe they discuss family and other issues that pertain to why the addiction came about. I think she might be better off talking to an IC where she might be more willing to open up.
RA is a nasty disease. She had J(juvenile)RA when she was a kid and had to wear braces and get a lot of shots and then it went away or into remission and then it came back when she became pregnant with our second child.
No AD's but I have always thought it might help. I can't really suggest that anymore because it would be seen as I am trying to fix her and she is not broken. I have heard that line so many times in the past.
She has had a really rough life....I don't know if I would have been able to deal with all the things she has had to.
I think we both have put the kids first and they appear to be doing well.....considering. I have them two nights a week and every other weekend.
