I can't believe I'm seeing these words from you again! Being sexually assertive and confident has NOTHING to do with force or coercion. ZERO. It has NOTHING to do with ignoring when a woman says "NO.' "NO" continues to mean no.
I've been quiet because I hoped MrBond might inspire you to move you away from sexual passivity where my efforts have failed.
But now I see you saying pretty much exactly the same thing as you did two years ago, about rape, force, etc... You are driving me nuts.
A sexually assured, confident, assertive, strong man does not force or coerce a woman into sex. If she says no, he STOPS immediately and respectfully without pouting or storming off or whimpering or whining or being needy. He certainly does not engage non-consensual activity.
But nor does he sit around passively, making hesitating, tentative platonic gestures and think they will lead to any sex, let alone hot sex. Again, you keep waiting for some kind of external event (a wedding, a party, whatever) to make the difference. An external event is not going to seduce your W or make you into a sexual being. You need to do both yourself. Perhaps you might try reading PM again?
Now, as for SCHOOL, you seem to be enjoying it and gaining confidence. This is so great for you -- yay Doc!!. Plus, apart from the other obvious benefits, these things will also make you more attractive sexually :-) And great job sharing the dancing show with W :-)
