I can't remember how to link an old thread but my original post is under hurtinginside. That sounded kind of gay after some time had passed so I changed to Matt-14.
LOL! Welcome back.
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Not much has changed over the years except for the way I deal with things.
That's all you can do.
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I was devastated at first but have accepted the situation and feel bad for her.
I too feel bad for my ex. In the beginning I think it's important to understand what the forces are that drive this crazy train.
We'll never have all of the answers.
You've been at this for quite some time, the only thing I have to offer at the moment is a word of caution. Analyzing all of the craziness can suck you back into the whirlwind. I'm not saying that is the case, I'm just saying be careful.
after some time had passed so I changed to Matt-14. 
