W tailspin continues. It is almost as if I am D'ing her, not visa versa. I am trying to be there when she needs me, but not actively trying to help, which I think would be useless. I am quite freaked out about this depressive tailsping and do not know what to do.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012