Its the time when you feel the rug kicked out from under you....for most its the ea/pa conformation usually in tandem w/ ilybnilwy but every mlcer is different. your h certainly hits all the markers


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest