Its the time when you feel the rug kicked out from under you....for most its the ea/pa conformation usually in tandem w/ ilybnilwy but every mlcer is different. your h certainly hits all the markers
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest