Dear Gatsby. Take the high road. Don't put anything in writing that can make you look anything less than the dignified woman you are. I like something like:
"I appreciate your concern, but I would like to keep discussion of my marriage between H and I from now on. When I am ready to talk to him I will. All I am doing now is looking after me and the baby, so this child comes into the world in peace.Everything I have done is to save my marriage and to protect my family, perhaps sometimes in errror. Please just remember that in any marriage, there are problems, and in any marriage, both spouses have faults. Thank you!"

I too am reeling. Pressure is trickling in from outsiders to "allow WAH to be a father"... I am just speechless when I get these comments. I'm like, er, HE LEFT US, PEOPLE.

But down with anger, in with healing... we are hear for you and know your pain (and your strength!).

HUGS


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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