still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

ok I will only share the silly stuff if we end up R. For now it is my secret!

But I am having a fun long distance friendship with a man that started platonic JUST FRIENDS and now there is attraction plus some caring feelings. Luckily he lives across the country so we are safe. He has kids too and his W has initiated divorce. I feel zero guilt for this indulgence and am grateful to have met him. His W left him and traded down when she picked out OM and we have spent hours and hours and hours analyzing both of our sitches then talking about fun stuff too!

So if WH files for D I will make sure I meet this wonderful man!!!