Tonight, at baseball game, my mother there, as well as H's parents and H. H and I never spoke a word. After game, I gave him envelope will all bill/account info again, health insur apps, 1/2 of money from 4 wheeler, disconnect notices, copies of bills, etc. Went to tell him what was in envelope as I handed it to him. He turned his back to me. His mother just shook her head and I walked away. When we approached his truck, went to tell H that son would rather one get 2gether. H interrupted and said "I tried to tell you!" (Which he didn't. S11 and I had talk in front of H. All H said was that he didn't understand why we needed to do sep get 2gethers.
Anyway, after we left, I check bal in joint ckng acct. It was over $100 more in the neg, so I texted H the following:
One of the papers in that envelope showed that the bal in the account was neg 215 like on Fri. Checked bal just now. Now it's neg 320.54 cause life insur (80.54) drafted today and NSF fee of 25 too. Told you of insur draft on papers from 4/7, on papers I gave you Sat, and in email today. Thought I'd update you since papers I just gave you are not most recent figures any longer.
H's response: CANCEL THE F'ING LIFE INSURANCE & ANYTHING ELSE THAT DOESN'T MATTER. ARE YOU THAT DAMN STUPID?!
I copied my text to H and his response and sent them to his mother. This is ridiculous! Am I stupid? Hello! We have kids. H works around things that could kill him everyday. If he died, me and my kids are screwed. You'd think that for the kids sake, he want to keep the life insur so that they'd be taken care of but no.
Last edited by dedicated; 04/20/1003:35 AM. Reason: added to post
