I think that's great, Passenger. Take some time and clear your head. You'll know better what you want to do after that. I would, however, make sure that MIL knows exactly how things went last weekend when he was on his own. No matter what he says a 15 and 16 yr old are not ready to be on their own. She'll know that. Reaffirm to him and her that you don't want D and you're willing to work on things. Then, like Mr bond said, dress up, go out (anywhere). You'll feel so much better.