Well, I know what a pirogue is so now I think I know what state you live in.

That four wheeler pennies story is truly funny. A moment of humor in an otherwise dark situation.

Yes, your H sounds like what they call "one mean S.O.B." You have your work cut out for you.

Is it time for you to start wondering if life might be easier without him in some way if he's always been a bully who won't change? Just wondering.