Been mostly celibate since June of 2009 - its just a guilt thing for her.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
My advice here.....if you two are not going to attempt to rebuild a relationship after the divorce, then in no way should you live in the same household. You will never be able to move on with your life if you do. You will not be able to do what you want, not be able to meet someone new and build a relationship. In a sense you will be torturing yourself.
My advice here.....if you two are not going to attempt to rebuild a relationship after the divorce, then in no way should you live in the same household. You will never be able to move on with your life if you do. You will not be able to do what you want, not be able to meet someone new and build a relationship. In a sense you will be torturing yourself.
I second this. In house seperation and seeing/talking to too often a spouse who is no longer with you is torturous and draining of energy. It prevents you from looking forward. Looking forward once a situation has eroded is not a bad thing either.
I guess that's it. . . it will all be done soon. Wife just left my place. The divorce hearing is tomorrow morning at 8:30AM. I am not required to be there and do not plan to be there. This is not a good feeling. Twenty-five years . . . more than half our lives we have been together.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
In just a few hours the divorce will be final. This is very weird.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
I am so sorry, mrbt. I know I'm new here, but I just wanted to say that I pray you find some peace through all of this. Perhaps this is your opportunity to find some happiness, a fresh start.
(((big hugs for today)))
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
Hello everyone and thank you for checking in on me.
Believe it or not, we are still married.
Here's the story . . .
Wife visited me the night before. We had an somewhat emotional good bye (no tears). I didn't know this at the time, but after she left my apartment she went for a walk. She was having second thoughts and wanted to think. There is a tiny church nearby. She said she sat on the church steps and asked God so send her a sign. She wasn't struck by lightning and so decided to go home and proceed with the divorce in the morning.
The next morning, about a half hour before she was supposed to leave, she was suddenly doubled over in pain. She called me and then cancelled the hearing. l took her to see her OBGYN. After an ultrasound, the doctor determined that she had an ovarian cyst that had burst.
I don't know if anything will change . . . maybe we be divorced next week . . . maybe not.
Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled Moved back home May 2010 PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010
I am sorry your W had a health problem. My sister had a ruptured ovarian cyst and she said it is terribly, terribly painful. It was thoughtful of you to help your W out.
