Mr. Langshanks.... I have noticed that this isn't the first time that you have jumped into a long term poster's thread without reading enough to know what's going on. Giving advice is great, but if you are not going to read enough to know what's up, it would make sense to stick more to new posters, and go and grow with them. (I'm not saying you should read all of the posts of a long timer, unless you are really interested.)
The other thing I've noticed is that you've given a lot of advice, and tried to sound pretty authoritative, and I have seen very little about your own situation. I think it helps everyone to know a bit about the people that are posting to them. Why not start a thread, and let us know what's up with you?
I hope this doesn't come off as overly critical. The point is that a lot of people here are on a knifes edge, and we should all be very careful about how we give advice, and what advice we give.
I wasn't aware my tone is overly critical. Sorry it is not my intent. While we are all willing to help people past things that once where difficult for us in these situations, I agree I need to make myself more aware of the situation and the history before I make strong comments. I apologize.
I also am thankful for resources like this website, which allowed me to become rational in the midst of a bunch of gaslighting, lies and desception. I'm not sure I want to depict my entire sitch, because I get angry again. I will say thought its very much like a couple of the posters on the website.
