The dreaded LIMBO

[4luv]

I have had the same exact thoughts regarding husband's motivation to want to work on his marriage. So what do I do? I mean, it seems that my only option is to see how he plays the whole thing but try to stay detached as much as possible. I really do wonder if OW hadn't started going crazy and started to pressure husband if he would have had a change of heart.

i have to wonder though don't MOST affairs usually end when the Wayward spouse realizes that the OW wasn't all they are cracked up to be or they start to notice significant differences between OP and the left behind spouse.

I have been thinking long and hard about this and my hesitation is the fact that husband had OW visiting him that week so the affair could not have been THAT close to being over. If I am about to break up with someone then I give the hint by not even seeing them. The only thing that can counter that is that husband could always use OW visiting as an opportunity to see his son.

Please give me any advice on how I should play this. Right now I am treading VERY slowly and seeing how husband's actions stack up with his words. And yes, I do want to know if husband will just run to the next woman when things get tough or stressful with us again. So I am open to any comments as to what to do.

thanks for all of you guys support and words of caution. Keep em coming :-)