I attended and I was really ready for a D, but hoping for love to grow.
Others have had different experiences. Why not check out this thread Retrou Thread
TBLs wife was in an affair, but he managed to turn things around. Now, that is with a lot of change/reexamining on his part. For me, the first time I ever felt real love my W was after the weekend. That love didn't solve the other problems we had, but it gave me the motivation to keep trying (on most days...!)
