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[awest1217]

I have no way of knowing if H is truly going to rehab especially since it is in another city. I am just trusting him as he is saying he is going, but for all I know OW has moved to that city and he is going to see her. I have no idea because I don't check-up on him. He is going to live his life, and i am going to live mine. Like I said, I am not going to file for another 1.5 months. By then, I will know if he was really going because insurance paper work will come here in the mail, if it never comes, then I know he wasn't going. Plus there should be some change in his behavior by then if he really is going (maybe not reconciliation, but a change). Also he hates living with his parents so I am sure he will soon figure out what he wants to do with his life because he really hates living at home, and yes I know he is living at home at least most nights because he talks about what happens there also OW's H only has home games most of the rest of the season so no chance to stay there... All in all I feel that I will be able to make a sound decision by the time I have enough money saved. I am doing well right now so I should be good to go by then.