I do recall reading some posts and DR or DB and saying that being friends could work... but i can totally see where it can just give h everything he wants... bachelorhood, a caring xwife and a baby... like a family to walk in and out of at his convenience. I am afraid that H is a bit too selfish for me to handle the friend thing... I have to do some research.
I dont think there is anything wrong with you following up with your H to discuss important matters... send a friendly text just following up on the text you sent several days ago and if he had a chance to think about it etc.
i am making soft plans.. like that term... i guess I will just take things one day at a time, until I am comfortable with my decisions or am forced to make one... who knows...
