New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Michelle,

I called the boys a couple of days ago. After talking with them, my W asked to talk to me as well. She said that S11 has to go to the dentist for some major dental work. She said she needed money to for the dentist. I told her this is important so I sent her money to take care of it.

She actually is using her share of the tax return for S11's dental work as well. Which means she never spent her tax return to get a new used vehicle. My mind is working to figure out if the dental work reason is legit. But when it comes to my boys, I'd do anything. So I did sent the money.

After she mentioned the dental work part, we actually ended having a very nice phone conversation for the remaining
20 min. I inquired about the boys and her parents, she inquired about my folks. I told her I may have found a job after I leave active duty. So She wanted to know more about it. She sounded glad about it. So I am not really sure if she's happy because I sent her money or because she is genuinely happy to chat.

In any case, I am OK. GAL activities: I did go to dinner with a fellow officer and his family, even went out with two female co-workers who just wanted to cheer me up. It was actually a lot of fun.

Anyway, I'm OK.

JR