Thanks for that Sandi, it was very helpful.

You will be happy to know that it has been over 5 days with NC of any kind and that is from me to her and from her to me.

I had a wonderful weekend with my kids who were all home for the first time since last May before all of this blew up. We went out to dinner on Friday night and then went shopping for S24 BD present.

I went to go see Avatar with younger woman for the midnight show because I hadn't seen it. Kids didn't want to go because they had all seen it so S24 told me to ask younger woman because he didn't want me to go alone.

Saturday the kids spent with their mom up in the mountains and had a good time but kept it light and fluffy with W (just the way she likes it). They said that she was crying off and on on the drive up.

Saturday night went to the John Oates (of Hall & Oates) concert with another lady friend of mine and it was great.

Sunday started out with me cantoring at mass and then me and the kids went to the Indoor Skydiving place where I had a certificate I needed to use. We then went out to eat and later D20 and D19 headed back to school and S24 and I went to go see How to Train Your Dragon which was a wonderful father and son movie. S24 had already seen it but thought that it was such a good father and son movie that he went again with me.

Lady friend from the John Oates concert had coffee with W on Sunday and I haven't heard the full story but she did say that she listened a lot and bit her tongue a lot and that W sees her self as the victim in all of this.

Today S24 and I had lunch with his godfather and that is about all.

I feel really detached from W and don't really care if I hear from her or not. I will certainly NOT make the first contact. I have planned a BBQ and movie night for Saturday with some of the cast from this past show so that should be fun. S24 leaves on Wednesday morning.

That's all for now.


Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs
S24 D21 D19
EA disc 6/09
2nd EA Fall 09
I move out 11/12/09
W and I switch 1/14/10
D Filed 3/17/10
W moves in with OM 6/8/10
D Final 6/21/10

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